I generally test (and agree with) ISFJ, but it seems like I swap over to ISTJ in response to stress or large groups. Is that normal?
Anonymous

When put under stress, any type can change how they might react. Our temperament is how we would generally respond to things.

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I, Taylor, found another personality test I like and can see how it correlates with MBTI. So, if you would - take the quiz at http://similarminds.com/embj.html (it’s like a 100 questions long) and it tells you your MBTI along with a 1-9 number indicator for the Emmeagram Personality Type (look that up too!). After you take it, look up your highest number and I’m curious to know what your MBTI is and then what numer on the Emmeagram Test you got. I just saw how I’m an INFJ and got a 4, which makes perfect sense if you look into it - anyways, please respond with it - I’m so curious!!!!

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I was helping an ISTP that I slightly dislike with something and she told me that she was thankful for me always being the person she can count on if she needs help and then she said she normally doesn't say this stuff. Is this something an ISTP would say as a lie to manipulate me to do this stuff for her or honesty? What does it sound like?
Anonymous

I really wouldn’t be able to tell truly unless I actually saw how she said it and by reading her body language but… if she continues to ask for your help then she might be using you. Do you talk to her regularly or does she only talk to you when she wants something from you?

-Sarah

To the anon who just asked, I'm an ENFP. And my goals in life are pretty much involved with finding the truth and making up my mind about things AND not worrying about what people think of me. Because as an ENFP I tend to hate conflict and I over think about what people think of myself. And another goal is to finish what I get started, because I usually don't. Sometimes I just lose my excitement of find something else to work with.
Assign me a goal as an ENFP? I need goals! Thank you.
Anonymous

Maybe to… be able to figure yourself or commit to something without feeling uncertain or trapped?

So, I'm an ESTP guy and I have one question. I feel like we're always portrayed as being very dominant. And that's true for me in real life. I'm always the center of attention and the leader in groups and such, wether I want to or not it just happens. But, when it comes to sex, that's not true at all. I'm kinky and in a long-term s/m relationship with another dude as a sub and that seems to go against how ESTP's are or something. So, are ESTP's always dominant or what?
Anonymous

While I can offer little about how mbti correlates to your sex-life perhaps you enjoy completely letting go of your dominance. Perhaps you find submission a fetish because it’s contrary to what you normally do?

Hi! Thanks for the blog, it's pretty awesome. :D I was wondering if you knew anything about infps being prone to either depression or social anxiety (or just anxiety issues in general)? Or maybe some followers would like to weigh in? Anyway, thanks again!

I think it tends to happen, especially with INFPs, or really any type with an Fe or Fi dominant function.

Like we start out somewhat friendly towards each other with quite a bit of bantering and apparently playful teasing but then our relationship quickly plummets downhill. The teasing and bantering becomes serious and we start to gradually hate each other.
Anonymous

Oh ok. Hm. The xSTx and xNFX types can have this kind of clash sometimes, and I’ve had it a lot honestly. It’s because your minds work so differently.

My type is ENFP. We usually start out okay but then something happens.
Anonymous

You want to explain that a little more? xD