Well, if he is anything like myself, then here is what I would say: First off, just be straight up with him. INFJs are big on being true to yourself, honest, real. Ask him, they tend to be pretty straight forward with answers one on one when people truly want the truth. Also, INFJs tend to go for the long-term relationship almost always. So if he is interested in you he should be dropping some clear, long term hints. INFJs want someone with substance, someone who is deep, thinks about everything, and is willing to listen to them talk about themselves - but not in the conceited way, more so in a way in which they can have that person understand them and their views on the world. If you can relate to him like this, you’re in. If he goes to you and starts up these conversations then he feels not only comfortable, but that you can relate - sometimes us INFJs try this and realize the person doesn’t get it and so we never do it again, but listen to him and try to think like that. We INFJs love to share our many thoughts! So, my best advice is to just ask him - INFJs want serious relationship, not superficial ones, and I think most of us would rather end it when it’s easy then get attached and have things get complicated. I hoped this helped :) ~Taylor