What About MBTI?, I just read your last reply to a post and you said “Because we are big idealists, we tend to make relationships deeper than they actually are.” I’m an INFJ and that really offended me. That is not true at all. It’s very wrong of you to make accusations like that.

I just read your last reply to a post and you said "Because we are big idealists, we tend to make relationships deeper than they actually are." I'm an INFJ and that really offended me. That is not true at all. It's very wrong of you to make accusations like that.

Anonymous

I find that to be very true. I don’t mean depth really, just some of us INFPs tend to fantasize a lot and feel like we know some people more than we actually do, so it creates a false sense of depth. How are you offended by that if you’re an INFJ? We’re very different types, you know.

-Sarah

totheextraordinarykb said: Weird, cause I’m an INFJ & I don’t find that true for me at all. If anything, I underestimate the depth of my relationships. I’m pretty used to saying my relationships are shallow, especially from my end. So maybe it’s true of INFPs & not INFJs?
redkiteslongnights said: Maybe anon is referring to the inference that idealists in general blow relationships out of proportion? (I’m an INFP and I agree with your statement btw)
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